A dear friend is going through a divorce at this moment. So, based on her request, I am re-posting this piece from a year ago.
This post is not a mellow one. It is a written assurance of how thankful I am now. For my divorce (4 years ago)- now 5, has taught me a lot that I am willing to share here, with no intention at all to pry.
One thing for sure... Divorce taught you a lot about life, love, your friendship, family, and your vision about relationship(s).
But foremost, it taught you a lot about yourself.
Ps: You asked me what to do first? This below: