On Books That Your Heart Clutches

I first read "Dear Ijawele, or a Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions" in 2002, and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie has since captured my heart.

This year, I sink my nose to inhale Purple Hibiscus which tells the story of Kambili and her older brother Jaja, who lead a privileged life in Enugu, Nigeria, sheltered from life's troubles and truth. 

Her works were not only raw and ingratiating but also invested with a profound sense of honesty that resonated deeply with me. 

Captivated by her style, I recently borrowed "The Thing Around Your Neck" from the library. It is a poignant collection of short stories that intricately maps the experiences of Nigerian women as they navigate the complexities of love—or the lack thereof—along with the heart-wrenching themes of loss and the everyday struggles they encounter in a challenging world. The depth and authenticity of these narratives invite readers to reflect on the resilience of women in the face of adversity.

Have you read any of her works? How do you recover from it?

**Disclaimer:** These are pictures from last week. I am recovering well.

In recent months, I have gone through symptoms of exhaustion and stress that caused me Gastroesophageal reflux and persistent nerve problems. While I spare you the details, I want to share how a visit from my friend, a servant of God, unshackled my perspective.

I became consumed by my current struggles and the themes of my first published book, which felt suffocating amidst the facts, real characters, and its relevance today. This fixation affected me deeply, especially as I received messages from people sharing similar hardships. I was overwhelmed by tragedy and negative news.

During her visit, while I was hospitalized, my friend Tracy, a servant of God,  said something that struck me: "We often talk about our ten percent tithe, but what about dedicating ten percent of our time to God through prayer, reading, watching uplifting movies, and spending time with supportive friends?" 

I realized I had been investing my energy and time in worldly pursuits. 

While some of these activities seemed beneficial, I questioned how reading a single Bible passage on my way out the door would impact my growth. What kind of growth could I expect, and how could I find the strength and fuel to keep going and fulfill my purpose?

So here I am. As I improve my physical health, I am also starting to make changes with my "tithe" of time dedicated to God. I trust that He has ordered my steps.

PS: Thank you, Tracy, for your time and words. My husband for standing by my side through my ups and downs. Also to my bestfriend, Yosefine, thank you for being there ALL THE WAY.