This is not a pregnancy announcement post.
It is, however, an attempt to evoke the dilation of a giant rebirth called Feminism.
Over the last ten years, I've written stories and poems circling one significant theme. A theme that speaks of the uterus and uses the word vagina sans apologetic nuance.
The theme is sewed in a satirical tone and with mostly dark endings, if not left undone.
A dear friend once asked if I would write different stories after I re-marry. This question, I believe, is based on one general assumption. That feminists are all mad.
Yes. We all are.
Not many realize this anger comes from tragic stories; death over what we wear (and do not); abuse simply because we say no (and when we say yes); voices kept shut (because, really, who would believe her story?); doors to education slammed (if we're lucky enough not being shot in the head); and ways for justice remain dark.
But we are also hopeful. At least, I am.
Me marrying the man I love does not change my mind about what I advocate. If anything, it fuels it.
Feminism allows a bond to be vulnerable and brave about making decisions and after one's dream.
Being comfortable telling your partner that you do not want to go for a round of IVF or to tell them you're broke and need them to support you for a while.
To confidently tell them you want both last names to be part of your child's, to take turns being gentle or firm.
But those are only the small things.
From a bigger perspective, Feminism force is thriving towards the well-being of a family, society, country, and even the world.
Fewer would give in to child marriage, many stomping for better education, malnutrition would end, and wage parity would deliver stability to all stakeholders.
And perhaps we could all sleep better at night.
As Merriam Webster dictionary states, Feminism; is a belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes expressed through organized activity on behalf of women's rights.
Simple, but the road is long.
Now take a deep breath, world.
We are about to give birth ❤⭐